Archive for May, 2010
7 Tips to Have a Healthy Relationship
Very few in this world prefer to age in solitary. Unless you're a castaway in an unchartered island, and not many would choose to be. And that would be far-fetched considering that no islet nor isle has not been mapped in this day and age. And to move up in the society, one has to have some form of human interaction, a relationship of some sort. Relationship does not necessarily connote a romantic attachment. It can be a professional affiliation, for example the employee-employer relationship that you and your boos or your employee (if you are the boss) has. Or perhaps it may pertain to the bond between you and your sibling(s). And these associations with different people are part and parcel of your daily existence, so whether you are the solitary type or the outgoing kind, having a relationship is something inevitable. And considering it is, maintaining a healthy one is imperative because it plays an important role in our over-all well-being. Whatever relationship we foster will expectably reflect in our behavior. A single discordant relationship may affect the other relationships you are trying to nurture because of the stress it may bring. For example, a spat with your wife before you went to work may trigger you to become grumpy and unapproachable, thereby putting your relationship with your colleagues and your superiors at risk.
Should We Run After Our Relationships
Should we really run after our relationships? Well an important and exciting question which really hit our mind every now and then. What are relationships and why they are so important for us? Well for some a relation is just what we inherit from our birth. For some people relations are created on earth. For some, relations are the most important asset of our life and yet some other people may consider it as the most important liability or burden.
Whether a person considers his relationships as an asset or a liability, it matters a lot. It affects the way he is reacting to his relationships. Relations are definitely made in heaven but they are nurtured on earth. They are just like plants that need to be fed and protected. The relations are one of the most beautiful gifts that God has bestowed on us. Without these relations, the earth will be a hell. Whether they are created by birth or by us, their importance in our life can never be less.
Romantic Relationship
The first flushes of romance in a new relationship are thrilling. You are still getting to know the other person. You aren't sure of each other yet, and are still sharing information about yourselves. Great as this bonding period is, it is temporary of course. After the excitement of new love is over, transitioning into a strong and healthy ongoing relationship can be challenging but is not impossible.
Any couple that has been together for a long time knows this. The early stages are only the first act; the rest of the play takes place after things have settled down. If you find yourself wondering how to make this transition, take heart. You can stay in love after the falling in love stage of the relationship ends. Try some of these suggestions.
Spend some time apart: New couples tend to monopolize each others' time. They want to go everywhere and do everything together. Of course, in the long term that's just not practical.